Desires of the flesh vs. desires of the spirit

Understanding the Conflict: Flesh vs. Spirit

      The Bible presents a stark contrast between the desires of the flesh (human sinful nature) and the desires of the Spirit (what pleases God). This struggle is most clearly described in Galatians 5:16-17:  “So I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh. For the flesh desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the flesh. They are in conflict with each other, so that you are not to do whatever you want.”

      This verse highlights the internal battle believers face. The flesh pulls toward sin, while the Spirit calls believers toward righteousness.

What Are the Desires of the Flesh?

      The desires of the flesh represent sinful tendencies that are in opposition to God’s will. These include both actions and attitudes that lead people away from holiness.

Paul's List in Galatians 5:19-21

      Paul provides a clear list of works of the flesh: “The acts of the flesh are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like.”

      These desires can be categorized into four broad areas:

1. Sexual sins – Sexual immorality, impurity, debauchery

      These involve lust, fornication, and any misuse of God’s design for sexuality.

2. Idolatry and occultism – Idolatry, witchcraft

      This includes placing anything above God and engaging in spiritual practices opposed to Him.

3. Relational sins – Hatred, discord, jealousy, rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions, envy

      These sins damage relationships, leading to conflict and division.

4. Excess and indulgence – Drunkenness, orgies

      This represents uncontrolled, reckless living that dulls spiritual sensitivity.

      Paul warns that those who live by the flesh will not inherit God’s kingdom (Galatians 5:21). This means a lifestyle dominated by sin leads to separation from God.

What Are the Desires of the Spirit?

      In contrast, the desires of the Spirit reflect the godly character that the Holy Spirit cultivates in believers.

The Fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23)

      Paul describes the evidence of a Spirit-led life: “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.”

      Each of these characteristics reflects Christ’s nature:

1. Love – A selfless, sacrificial care for others.

2. Joy – A deep, abiding sense of well-being in Christ.

3. Peace – Inner calm and harmony with others.

4. Patience – The ability to endure difficulties and offenses with grace.

5. Kindness – A generous, compassionate attitude.

6. Goodness – Integrity and moral uprightness.

7. Faithfulness – Loyalty and reliability in relationships and commitments.

8. Gentleness – Strength under control, humility.

9. Self-control – Mastery over sinful desires.

The Call to Walk by the Spirit

      The Bible calls believers to reject the desires of the flesh and walk by the Spirit (Galatians 5:16). But how does this happen?

1. Crucifying the Flesh

“Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.” (Galatians 5:24)

      This means putting sinful habits to death through repentance and faith.

2. Renewing the Mind

“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” (Romans 12:2)

      This happens through Scripture, prayer, and fellowship with other believers.

3. Being Led by the Spirit

“Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit.” (Galatians 5:25)

      This requires daily surrender to God’s guidance.

Conclusion: Choosing the Spirit Over the Flesh

      The desires of the flesh lead to destruction, but the desires of the Spirit bring life and peace (Romans 8:6). Every believer must make a daily choice: to indulge in sin or to follow the Spirit’s leading. Walking by the Spirit is the key to overcoming the power of the flesh and living a life that honors God.